{"id":3154,"date":"2022-04-08T01:49:37","date_gmt":"2022-04-08T01:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iconrefined.com\/?p=3154"},"modified":"2024-04-08T21:22:56","modified_gmt":"2024-04-08T21:22:56","slug":"bti-357-getting-stood-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iconrefined.com\/bti-357-getting-stood-up\/","title":{"rendered":"BTI #357: Getting Stood Up"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- iframe plugin v.5.1 wordpress.org\/plugins\/iframe\/ -->\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border:none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/22728914\/height\/100\/width\/\/thumbnail\/no\/render-playlist\/no\/theme\/custom\/tdest_id\/4427553\/custom-color\/87A93A\" height=\"100\" width=\"100%\" scrolling=\"no\" 0=\"allowfullscreen\" 1=\"webkitallowfullscreen\" 2=\"mozallowfullscreen\" 3=\"oallowfullscreen\" 4=\"msallowfullscreen\" class=\"iframe-class\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe>\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t know anything worse in dating than getting stood up. I think it&#8217;s an intimate fear of any first date. I want to tell you about the worst time when I got stood up. I had just turned 18 years old, but this was not a date. I had a meeting with a recruiter from the United States Navy because I was thinking about enlisting. We were supposed to meet at the Foothills Outlet Mall in Tucson, Arizona. He stood me up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may have been stood up by someone you were crushing on. But have you ever been stood up by the U.S. government? I have. 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