{"id":3155,"date":"2022-04-15T01:49:37","date_gmt":"2022-04-15T01:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iconrefined.com\/?p=3155"},"modified":"2024-04-08T21:21:57","modified_gmt":"2024-04-08T21:21:57","slug":"bti-360-all-the-wrong-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iconrefined.com\/bti-360-all-the-wrong-things\/","title":{"rendered":"BTI #360: All the Wrong Things"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- iframe plugin v.5.1 wordpress.org\/plugins\/iframe\/ -->\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border:none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/22803923\/height\/100\/width\/\/thumbnail\/no\/render-playlist\/no\/theme\/custom\/tdest_id\/4427553\/custom-color\/87A93A\" height=\"100\" width=\"100%\" scrolling=\"no\" 0=\"allowfullscreen\" 1=\"webkitallowfullscreen\" 2=\"mozallowfullscreen\" 3=\"oallowfullscreen\" 4=\"msallowfullscreen\" class=\"iframe-class\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe>\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;ve spent the last several hours in a tremendous amount of pain and I&#8217;ve done this for you. I&#8217;ve been thinking about the craziest, stupidest things I&#8217;ve ever done to get a girl to notice me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, I was the kid who would immediately raise the decibel level on my voice when a girl sat next to me on the bus and started to laugh much louder so that she knew I was having a great time.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In middle school, I got a Shawn Kemp jersey that I would wear at least once a week to school. Every time I put it on, I had an idea in my mind that I would get special attention from a girl. 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